Life, Dating, and Getting through it all?

Life is so complicated, dealing with work, girls (guys you know what i am talking about). Is it possible to live life like in the movies, guy finds the perfect women they get married live in the country with a beautiful house, with 2 or 3 children and happily ever after. That does sound so perfect but it never happens. It is people have OK jobs, a OK wife for some that complains, buy me this then you know later what happens. ;) And children that are either bratty, or want this, or i dont have to do anything my parents are going to be there forever. I prefer Mars, red and desolate. Sounds Perfect. But what are we going for, are we all that means everybody on this planet trying to live happily ever after, or are we just all OK with our lives now. Then the girls.............Girls, women, babes, doll, or any other word for them explains everything. They use us so they can live happily ever after. Please provide some advice with what to work for or a good goal. Thanks For Providable Advice.